A Tale of Unexpected Kindness: The Time a University Student Let Me Sleep on Her Dormitory Ground

During the year 2006, I made a trip to Canberra for a medical school interview. I figured to arrange lodging upon arrival, yet upon reaching the city, a major event was happening and every single backpackers hostels and budget accommodation were fully booked.

As a visitor from the city-state of Singapore, I thought perhaps I could just sleep at the terminal – but soon learned Canberra airport, not like the one back home, is not open all night. Not knowing what my next move should be and getting a bit desperate, I caught a bus into town and found myself drifting in the direction of the casino, thinking I might spend those hours in an establishment that stayed open all night. Admittedly, this plan in the ideal condition to succeed at an interview the next morning, but as a cash-strapped student, luxury accommodation was impossible.

We could all use more people like that woman.

It seems I seemed confused because a female student saw me walking aimlessly through downtown and inquired if I was OK. I explained the story of my accommodation crisis and without hesitation she offered I was welcome to sleep on the floor in her student dorm at the Australian National University – which was perfect, considering that was where my medical school interview would take place the next morning. She went further by offering a meal: one of the stuffed baguettes she had from her part-time job. This gave me warm shower facilities and a protected spot to rest to sleep.

With hindsight, I can appreciate what a big chance she undertook as a young woman allowing a man who was a complete stranger crash at her place. At that time I operated under a bubble of male privilege and was oblivious to the potential danger. As a dad now, I am astonished she did that – but still deeply appreciative.

I didn’t end up attending the Australian National University, and I didn’t meet the student afterwards, but I’ve never forgotten her amazing act of human compassion. It is my wish life has returned her good deed abundantly. We could all use more folks like that woman.